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During a parents meeting
at a certain school the headmistress decided that with the parent's support,
sharing their time and effort could result in encouraging a nurturing
environment by spending the maximum amount of time with their children.
The headmistress intended that while the majority of the parents in the
community were employed, they could find some time to dedicate to establish
an understanding of their children's needs.
The headmistress was
surprised when one of the parents stood up and explained that they had
no time to speak with their children during the week. When they leave
to go to work it is so early that the children are still sleeping and
when they get back from work it is very late and the children are not
awake. Explaining that they had to work these hours to provide a lifestyle
for their family, while mentioning that they had no time for their children,
which was heartbreaking for them. They tried to redeem themselves by kissing
their children at night when arriving home, hoping that the child would
feel their presence. This parent made a knot at the end of the
sheet, which covered his child. This act was completed every night religiously,
when he went to kiss his child goodnight.
When the child woke
up and saw the knot, he knew that his Father had come in the night to
give him a kiss. The knot was a form of communication between the two
of them.
The
headmistress was touched by that excepcional story and was surprised to
confirm that the boy was one of the best pupils in the school.
This fact makes us reflect on the many
different ways people can interact and communicate. That father
found his own way, simple but efficient. And the main thing is that his
son was perceiving what his father was telling him through the effective
bond.
Sometimes we worry so much about the
way we say things that we forget about the main thing: communication through
emotions.
Simple details such as a kiss mean much
more to a child than presents and empty excuses.ta de una sábana
significaban para aquel hijo muchísimo más que regalos o
disculpas vacías.

I´s a right to worry about people,
but it is more important that they know and feel that we worry about them.
For communication to exist, it is essential
that people listen to the heart language because as for affection, feelings
always speak louder than words. That is why an affectionate kiss can take
away a headache, a scratch on the knee or the fear of darkness.
People may not understand the meaning
of many words, but they can value a love gesture, even if it is only a
bond.
Unsigned
literary work

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